Archive for the ‘money’ Category

Whenever an unexpected windfall of cash arrives, an unexpected expense follows and vice versa.

Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

Whenever an unexpected windfall of cash arrives, an unexpected expense follows and vice versa.

Someone said this on a message board on a website once and I swear that law is absolutely valid and real.

Yesterday morning, I had two things weighing on my mind. My brand new furnace (brand new here means 5 years old) had stopped running Thursday evening at some point. My HVAC was due to take a look at the system and then I also had an appointment with my accountant to go over my LLC and personal income taxes for the year. The meeting with the accountant was great – a better return than I was expecting. But as foreshadowed, the HVAC guy delivered some bad news. Two weeks after replacing my refrigerator, a gas inlet valve that leads to the furnace’s ignitor was bad and needs replacing. The part alone is just over $350.

Ugh. And to have to get this done the first week of March. And on a day (this coming Thursday) that the outside temperature is predicted to be 68. Insult to financial injury.

All of this said, there are millions of people that would gladly trade their best day for this one.

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laughing at a snot-covered 40 year old dad falling all over the ice, and having the time of his life

Wednesday, February 29th, 2012

Tonight, I get to play ice hockey with my son. See, the Dads (and Moms too if they want to lace them up) are taking on the sons during at practice tonight. Although I used to play, it’s been a solid 20 years since I’ve done any regular skating… in short, I’m going to look like a fool out there. On top of that, my sinus infection has come back with a vengeance, but I’ll be out there and happier than most would understand. I challenged my son to play ice hockey – he needed to maintain all A’s and B’s to see the ice. And Bubs has done it. He’s never missed a practice and his grades AND attitude have been awesome to say the least.

At the same time, I had to challenge myself to get him on the ice. The cost to put a 10 year old on skates to play this great game ain’t cheap. In fact – it’s completely fucking ridiculous. And for a Dad that runs his own business in this tough economy, this is amazing. I struggle to pay bills during some months. I have barely been able to save anything towards that wedding that my wonderful Abbe agreed to (oh, a little over a year ago). Our vacations have all centered around going to see our families or running a marathon to raise money for LLS (wow, I love seeing how far we exceeded our fundraising goal!).

Abbe looked over at me recently and asked, “the whole time I’ve known you, you haven’t purchased anything for yourself.” Yup, yup. And that’s fine. I’m good. There’s plenty of time for me to buy big freakin’ TVs and stupid expensive cars. In the meantime, I’m going to focus what little money I have towards making the people that make my day a little happier.

So if you happen to be at the Flyers Skatezone in Voorhees, NJ tonight you’re probably going to hear some 9 and 10 year olds laughing at a snot-covered 40 year old dad falling all over the ice, and having the time of his life.

Movie Reviews…

Elite Squad: The Enemy Within – boy, this was good. With a similar settings as City Of God and Bus 174 (the favelas in Rio de Janero), this film is an action movie, gangster movie, narrative on the immense gap between the poor and wealthy in Brazil, political thriller, and crime drama. This is a subtitled film that even the most hardcore Transformer-loving American film fan could enjoy. Really well done.

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stress, goodness, and 100 ladybug dots

Friday, February 10th, 2012

Yesterday was rough work-wise. One very frustrating non-programming issue and a very big meeting that is looming next week already has me very stressed. Being needed sometimes gets confused with being demanded, it’s all about perspective. That said, I need to unplug a bit this weekend.

Oh and before I forget, a big thank you to Asian Delight for calling me back after I placed my order last night to ask what kind of sushi roll I wanted (because my order was over $30, they give you a sushi roll dish for free). This very hard-working Dad greatly appreciated that. I’ve said it before, in this tough economy, we consumers are taking notes. You done good, Asian Delight.

Viv showing off her 100 project… big ups to Abbe Zabby for her help.

Movie Reviews…

In Time – I thought this was going to be a little better, but it’s like they took all the slow-mo don’t we look cool in our suits scenes from any of the Matrix movies and tried to make a full length movie out of them.
The Perfect Host – this was surprisingly good. David Hyde Pierce was awesome. Highly recommended.

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Every 38 Seconds…

Friday, February 3rd, 2012

Today, I wanted to dedicate my blog to an awesome family that lives right around the corner from me, Charlie Haughey and his family. I’m going to let his mother, Julie tell you guys what they are up to…

“I am writing you today to ask for your support of an incredibly important organization, CureSearch for Children’s Cancer. As you may know, my son Charlie was diagnosed with stage 4 neuroblastoma on December 24, 2009. Three days later he celebrated his 3rd birthday and began 14 months of very aggressive treatment at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. Your generous donation supports CureSearch for Children’s Cancer, a national non-profit foundation whose mission is to fund and support children’s cancer research and provide information and resources to all those affected by children’s cancer. CureSearch raises funds for collaborative research conducted at more than 175 hospitals across the nation, including CHOP. These hospitals participate in National Cancer Institute sponsored clinical trials conducted by the Children’s Oncology Group. In the last 40 years, collaborative research has increased the overall survival rate for children’s cancer from 10% to 78%. At CureSearch, our goal is 100%.

Two years ago, I ran the New York Marathon with Team CureSearch. This year, I have chosen to join CureSearch in their fight for a cure by participating in The CureSearch Walk. The CureSearch Walk celebrates and honors children, like Charlie, whose lives have been affected by children’s cancer, while raising funds for lifesaving research. I have set an aggressive fundraising goal, because all children living with cancer and those who have lost their fight deserve it. Please consider making a donation to my campaign – there is no gift too big or too small.

Thank you for your support. I can promise that you are making a difference in the lives of all those affected by children’s cancer. Together, we can Reach the Day when every child with cancer is guaranteed a cure.

With hope and gratitude,

Julie Haughey”

To donate to CureSearch for Children’s Cancer, please use this link.

 

Do something good today folks. A Child Dies From Childhood Cancer Every 38 Seconds. Who is ready to stand with this brave family? Make a difference today.

Movie Reviews…

Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides – there’s only two reasons you want to see this movie… either you’re 12 or you would pay money to watch Johnny Depp do anything. Or both I guess.

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Susan G. Komen for Women’s Health?

Wednesday, February 1st, 2012

I am really saddened by Susan G. Komen for the Cure’s decision to stop funding breast screenings to Planned Parenthood. I would like to hear more from Komen on this issue. But it appears that politics played a role in a group (albeit, a private one) that is supposed to promote women’s health cutting off funding to cancer screenings. I am not donating to Susan G. Komen until further notice. They are a private organization and I am a private citizen that can also choose where to put my hard-earned dollars.

I posted this on Facebook last night with a fairly simple statement, I am not donating until I hear more – the screenings they are going to be denying women could help save women’s lives against breast cancer. And what I got from friends was pure politics due to PP being an abortion provider.

I am looking at this as the father of a daughter, the son of an amazing mother, a future husband, and an ex-husband. And all of those women in the roles I just mentioned – all have incidents of cancer in their families. I ran 40 miles about a month ago to fight cancer with Team in Training. And I have no time or money for anyone or group that stands in my way to fight that disease.

To me, this is about fighting cancer, not congressional investigations (which seriously, there is zero legal requirement for an investigation to be started by Congress, so skip that – that IS purely political). And OK, if SGK’s motives were political, why not find a right wing cancer screening group of hospitals that you could donate those funds ear-marked for PP to provide those screenings for women in need?

SGK has made waves previously for their lawsuits against other cancer fighting non-profits for using the “for the cure” slogan. While legally they were fully acting within their rights, I have to ask, are you really fighting cancer or just spending the money you are raising to pay attorneys and talk to right wing lobbyists?

One last time, I get that SGK is a private organization and they can make their own choices. Just like I and millions of others can as we make our donations this year and in the future.

UPDATE: A petition has started, sign and share please if you care to do so.

Movie Reviews…

Cave of Forgotten Dreams – this was a pretty impressive documentary. Cave art that goes back 32,000 years filmed by Werner Herzog in 3D, awesome.

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